While reading some parenting articles, I read this one article about manners
that I knew I had to blog about it. Kids are easy enough to teach
manners, it's actually following it up that sucks. Because when they see
somebody else doing something really gross but funny they tend to do
the same thing...that is when it's crucial to say it is wrong. If they
get away with it even just once then they will do it again.
Parents
tend to let them get away with it, especially when they do it in public
and some people find it hilarious. Make no mistake about it, there are
people who find it really funny when a kid burps so loud, well, this
still falls under manners right?
You just don't say 'please', 'thank you', 'excuse me' to your parents or the elderly but to everybody, even those younger than you. And when I say everybody it means everybody, no matter what the station is life is....respect does not mean only for the rich and the executives. Even those in cheap clothes like the jeepney drivers, Metro Aides, your household help and everybody you meet.
You just don't say 'please', 'thank you', 'excuse me' to your parents or the elderly but to everybody, even those younger than you. And when I say everybody it means everybody, no matter what the station is life is....respect does not mean only for the rich and the executives. Even those in cheap clothes like the jeepney drivers, Metro Aides, your household help and everybody you meet.
It's
why I always say thank you when paying my fare and one thing I have
been wanting to see in other people. I mean it is not my obligation to
get your fare and pass it towards the driver so at least I deserve a
thank you.. don't you think? And even the driver in cheap work clothes
deserves a thank you.
Manner #1
When asking for something, say "Please."
Manner #2
When receiving something, say "Thank you."
Manner #3
Do
not interrupt grown-ups who are speaking with each other unless there
is an emergency. They will notice you and respond when they are finished
talking.
Manner #4
If
you do need to get somebody's attention right away, the phrase "excuse
me" is the most polite way for you to enter the conversation.
Manner #5
When you have any doubt about doing something, ask permission first. It can save you from many hours of grief later.
Manner #6
The
world is not interested in what you dislike. Keep negative opinions to
yourself, or between you and your friends, and out of earshot of adults.
Manner #7
Do not comment on other people's physical characteristics unless, of course, it's to compliment them, which is always welcome.
Manner #8
When people ask you how you are, tell them and then ask them how they are.
Manner #9
When
you have spent time at your friend's house, remember to thank his or
her parents for having you over and for the good time you had.
Manner #10
Knock on closed doors -- and wait to see if there's a response -- before entering.
Manner #11
When you make a phone call, introduce yourself first and then ask if you can speak with the person you are calling.
Manner #12
Be
appreciative and say "thank you" for any gift you receive. In the age
of e-mail, a handwritten thank-you note can have a powerful effect.
Manner #13
Never use foul language in front of adults. Grown-ups already know all those words, and they find them boring and unpleasant.
Manner #14
Don't call people mean names.
Manner #15
Do not make fun of anyone for any reason. Teasing shows others you are weak, and ganging up on someone else is cruel.
Manner #16
Even
if a play or an assembly is boring, sit through it quietly and pretend
that you are interested. The performers and presenters are doing their
best.
Manner #17
If you bump into somebody, immediately say "Excuse me."
Manner #18
Cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze, and don't pick your nose in public.
Manner #19
As you walk through a door, look to see if you can hold it open for someone else.
Manner #20
If
you come across a parent, a teacher, or a neighbor working on
something, ask if you can help. If they say "yes," do so -- you may
learn something new.
Manner #21
When an adult asks you for a favor, do it without grumbling and with a smile.
Manner #22
When someone helps you, say "thank you." That person will likely want to help you again. This is especially true with teachers!
Manner #23
Use eating utensils properly. If you are unsure how to do so, ask your parents to teach you or watch what adults do.
Manner #24
Keep a napkin on your lap; use it to wipe your mouth when necessary.
Manner #25
Don't reach for things at the table; ask to have them passed.
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