10 Stunning Terrible People to Avoid
A1. The
“Charmer”: otherwise known as a sociopath. This type of person might
appear attractive and know all the right things to say, but their whole reason
for being is to con their way into getting what they want. They lie with a
smile on their face. They cheat, steal, manipulate and exploit. They break as
many rules as they think they can get away with, all with great finesse and
without a drop of remorse.
A2. The
“Narcissist”: This person values themselves over everyone
else. Initially, they might appear nice, but eventually you’ll realize that
their needs and feelings are the only ones that matter. They’ll let you down
when you need their support and turn on you angrily if you inadvertently get in
the way of their needs being met.
A3. The
“Volcano”: This person carries around a lot of anger just under the
surface. Sooner or later the volcano is going to blow, spewing hot lava all
over you. Their rage is always out of proportion to what’s happening to them.
You’ll end up walking around on eggshells, when what you need to do is just
walk away.
A4. The
“Drama Queen”: This character needs to be the center of
attention or to create a crisis everywhere they go. Either they’re in trouble
and demand to be rescued or they make problems for the people in their lives.
They’ll often pit one person against the other and then sit back and enjoy the
show.
A5. The
“Cynic”: This angry, bitter individual sees the bad in everything,
but their attitude is really just a psychological defense against feelings of
vulnerability. They’ve unconsciously decided that negativity and pessimism will
prevent them from getting hurt. The problem is, their rotten attitude is
hurtful to everyone else.
A6. The
“Complainer”: This individual blames everyone else for what’s
is going wrong in their life. Because they refuse to be accountable for the
consequences of their choices, they keep repeating the same mistakes ad
infinitum, accusing those around them of causing all their suffering.
A7. The
“Boor”: This is a pretentious name-dropper and social climber who
sees you as a rung on their ladder to success. They’ll stop at nothing to have
the money, power and status they crave. Social interactions are all strategic
to them and designed to maximize access to the lifestyle they aspire to.
They’re incapable of genuine affection.
A8. The
“Wild Child”: They’re the rebel, the rule-breaker, the
non-conformist. At first glance, they might seem exciting but very quickly it
becomes clear that their recklessness disregard for their own and everyone
else’s welfare is hurtful and unattractive. Even if they’re willing to suffer
the consequences of their impulsiveness, you don’t have to.
A9. The
“Dreamer”: This person always has the next big secret of success just
at their fingertips. They’re full of grand ideas and plans, but either they
don’t follow through or they don’t think things through, both of which result
in social and financial disaster. Attaching yourself to this sinking ship puts
you at risk of being dragged under.
A10.
The “Lost Boy”: This person is a modern-day Peter Pan. They’ve
refused to grow up and instead, try to get their friends and loved ones to take
emotional and even financial care of them. This perpetual child could actually
grow up if they wanted to, but because they’ll never take responsibility for
themselves, they’ll be a burden on you forever.
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